In this podcast, sociology PhD candidate Canton Winer and Sarah Costello discuss asexuality. They cover topics such as the split attraction model, history of asexuality, intersection with other identities, and the need for acceptance in the LGBTQIA community.
Asexuality challenges traditional views on attraction, showcasing diverse experiences within the asexual spectrum.
Split-attraction model allows for compartmentalizing attraction into various categories, promoting nuanced understanding of attraction.
Podcast debunks misconceptions about asexual individuals' romantic inclinations, emphasizing the need for acceptance and understanding within the LGBTQIA community.
Deep dives
Exploring Asexuality and Historical Figures' Sex Lives
The podcast delves into the complex concept of asexuality, depicting various perspectives within the asexual spectrum. It highlights how asexuality challenges traditional views on attraction and relationships, presenting examples like Sarah Costello, who identifies as aromantic asexual. The discussion expands to demisexuality, emphasizing the diversity of asexual experiences. Furthermore, it explores historical figures like Isaac Newton, dissecting the changing interpretations of their orientation, showcasing the evolving understanding of asexuality.
Asexual Identity and Split-Attraction Model
The episode details the intricacies of asexual identity and the split-attraction model, highlighting that attraction can be compartmentalized into various categories. It illustrates how split attraction allows for experiencing different forms of attraction separately, challenging the conventional view of attraction as a singular entity. The examples provided underscore the nuanced nature of attraction beyond traditional labels, promoting a deeper understanding of diverse attraction experiences.
Challenges of Dating and Misconceptions
The podcast sheds light on the challenges faced by asexual individuals in dating and relationships, debunking misconceptions about asexual people's romantic inclinations and desires. It emphasizes the valid diversity in relationship preferences within the asexual community, highlighting the importance of understanding and accepting asexual identities. Additionally, it discusses the harmful stereotypes and discriminatory practices asexual individuals encounter, including the misconceptions perpetuated by traditional psychiatry.
Navigating Asexual Community and Coming Out
The episode guides individuals navigating the asexual spectrum, offering insights on coming out and engaging with the asexual community. It addresses the complexities of disclosing one's asexual identity, encouraging patience and providing resources for better understanding asexuality. Moreover, it explores the challenges associated with asexual visibility, assimilation into societal norms, and the impact of cultural perceptions on asexual individuals.
Impact of Asexuality on Society and Recognition of Asexual Identity
The podcast underscores the societal impact of asexuality, highlighting the need for broader recognition and acceptance of asexual identities. It delves into the discrimination faced by asexual individuals within both heterosexual and queer communities, shedding light on the marginalization and erasure they experience. By advocating for inclusivity and embracing a diverse range of experiences, the episode prompts a reevaluation of societal norms and attitudes towards asexuality.
This week, we challenge the common perceptions of attraction and explore the complexities of asexuality. Sociology PhD candidate Canton Weiner shares invaluable insights from his research while Sarah Costello, co-host of the podcast "Sounds Fake, But Okay," opens up about her personal experience being aro-ace, or aromantic asexual. We examine the split attraction model and shed light on various types of attraction, delve into the history of asexuality with pioneers like Magnus Hirschfeld and Alfred Kinsey, and discover how the rise of the internet has shaped the asexual community. This episode challenges misconceptions, explores the intersection of asexuality and other identities like race and gender, and highlights the need for increased understanding and acceptance within the LGBTQIA community.
Preconceived examines the preconceptions that shape how we view the world and challenges the paradigms by which we live our lives. The show is hosted by ophthalmologist Zale Mednick.
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35-year-old Aline, who grew up in the city of love, has never been attracted to anyone — sexually or romantically. On this podcast, they tell us how difficult it was to realize and accept their asexuality and aromanticism in a society that only talks about exactly that: love and sex. This acceptance is what also allowed them to now have a child on their own via artificial insemination. Listen wherever you get your podcasts.