The Better Sex Podcast ~ Unfiltered Conversations Unpacking Jealousy & Pleasure with Ken Blackman
Feb 19, 2025
Ken Blackman, an International Sex and Intimacy Educator, shares his journey from Apple software engineer to relationship coach. He explores the complexities of jealousy in relationships, categorizing it and offering insights into overcoming it through self-awareness. Blackman discusses embracing organic growth in partnerships and navigating the dynamics of pleasure, emphasizing the importance of mutual understanding. He also highlights strategies to bridge the orgasm gap, fostering more fulfilling connections between partners.
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Three Types of Jealousy
- Jealousy manifests mainly in three types: envious, insecure, and possessive.
- Each type arises from different causes and requires distinct ways of resolution.
Overcome Envious Jealousy
- To ease envious jealousy, focus on improving your relationship and fulfilling unmet needs.
- When both partners feel fulfilled, jealousy diminishes and generosity grows.
Insecure Jealousy Roots
- Insecure jealousy stems from self-esteem and fear of abandonment.
- High self-worth lessens jealousy by affirming your value and security in the relationship.
