Become New with John Ortberg 5. How to Handle Difficult People | John Ortberg
Aug 29, 2025
This discussion tackles the challenge of dealing with difficult individuals in your life. Drawing on biblical insights, it highlights the importance of maintaining perspective, even in adversity. The emotional depths of betrayal are explored, revealing dual motives behind people's actions. A powerful journey of self-reflection encourages listeners to recognize their flaws while dealing with others. Ultimately, humility and empathy emerge as vital tools for transforming relationships through love and faith.
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Childhood Nemesis Illustrates Revenge
- John Ortberg tells a story about his daughter naming a Blockbuster worker her "nemesis" to show how we fixate on revenge.
- He cites The Science of Revenge to explain how rumination hijacks our brain's reward system and breeds bitterness.
Why Motive Isn't The Final Measure
- Paul observed some people preach Christ from goodwill and others from selfish ambition, yet the gospel still advances.
- John Ortberg highlights Paul's reaction of rejoicing because the message is preached regardless of motive.
Betrayal Happens Inside Communities
- Paul wrote openly about betrayal from fellow Christians to warn believers that such failures occur within the church.
- Ortberg says this disclosure normalizes human weakness and prevents surprise when conflict arises among believers.