TRIGGERnometry "We Evolved to Manipulate" - Diana Fleischman
Apr 26, 2020
Diana Fleischman, an evolutionary psychologist and author, delves into the complexities of human relationships and morality. She challenges stigmas surrounding evolutionary psychology, highlighting its progressive aspects. The discussion covers how gender differences and biology interplay with societal perceptions, arguing against absolute equality in capabilities. Fleischman explores the dynamics of manipulation versus healthy influence in relationships, emphasizing the potential for growth through self-awareness. The episode skillfully navigates the evolutionary roots of social behaviors and modern relationship challenges.
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Evolutionary Psychology's Bad Rap
- Evolutionary psychology receives criticism for seemingly reinforcing gender stereotypes and downplaying human malleability.
- However, understanding baseline differences is crucial for effective social change, as highlighted by Dr. Fleischman.
Embrace Reality for Progress
- Acknowledge biological and psychological differences between individuals and groups instead of denying them.
- This honest approach is essential for developing effective interventions, argues Dr. Fleischman.
Positive Delusions in Relationships
- Dr. Fleischman recounts an anecdote where she convinced her ex-boyfriend to cultivate positive delusions about her, illustrating the tension between truth and what is beneficial.
- She suggests that growth mindset is beneficial on an individual level.