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The Rising Leader

Don't Set Boundaries

Oct 16, 2024
08:35


 

You've probably been told to set boundaries to handle difficult people or situations. While it's common advice, it might just be holding you back from true growth in your leadership journey. In this episode, we're flipping that script.

I'm Mark Silverman, and today's episode of The Rising Leader is all about why you should stop setting boundaries. Instead, I'm encouraging you to use those challenging interactions as opportunities to grow and become a calming influence. From dealing with an abusive peer to navigating difficult conversations without losing your cool, we're diving deep into turning adversities into strengths.

"A lot of people, when faced with harsh criticism, either attack back or attack themselves. But what if you could stay grounded and calm? You'd be light years ahead." - Mark Silverman

This week on The Rising Leader:

● The surprising advice: Stop setting boundaries

● Using adversities as personal growth opportunities

● Understanding when criticism is about you or the other person

● The power of remaining grounded and centered

● Turning toxic situations into chances to build trust

● Learning from trial lawyer Jefferson Fisher’s techniques

● Recognizing that people’s anger is often about their issues

● The importance of staying calm in high-pressure situations

Resources Mentioned:

·      Jefferson Fisher’s Instagram and podcast

·      Books: The Untethered Soul and Living Untethered by Michael Singer

·      Book: Only 10s by Mark Silverman

 

 

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In The Rising Leader Handbook, you’ll learn how to shift your perspective and gain the leadership skills you need, regardless of the breadth of your responsibilities, by leveraging the relationships you’ve built with the CEO, the Leadership Team, and the team you lead as well as your relationship with yourself.

Visit The Rising Leader Handbook: Turning High Achievers into Effective Leaders to grab your copy and start mastering your skills to become your team leader.

 

Leader, It’s Time to Rise!

 

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