Sharley Funk: Slowly Losing a Husband to Early-Onset Alzheimer’s
Jul 3, 2024
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Sharley Funk, a devoted wife, shares her heartbreaking experience of slowly losing her husband to Early-Onset Alzheimer’s Disease. She discusses signs of the disease, falling in love with her husband, the honor of caregiving, anxiety, anticipatory grief, and preparing to let go. Through her story, she emphasizes cherishing the time they have left together.
Early signs of Alzheimer's were initially misunderstood due to Lance's young age, highlighting the importance of timely diagnosis.
Charlie finds strength in her enduring love story with Lance, embracing her caregiving role amidst emotional turmoil.
Deep dives
Recognizing Early Signs of Alzheimer's
Early signs of Alzheimer's in her husband included difficulties in communication, forgetting passwords, and struggling with familiar tasks on devices like computers. Despite these challenges, initial diagnosis was delayed due to his young age and alternative explanations like PTSD were explored before accurately identifying early-onset Alzheimer's.
Cherished Memories and Unwavering Love
Charlie fondly reminisces about her enduring love story with her husband Lance, describing how they met in college and bonded over shared moments, eventually becoming each other's best friends. She highlights his humor, thoughtfulness, and familial love, showcasing how their deep connection has sustained them through life's challenges.
Navigating Caregiving and Seeking Support
As Lance's Alzheimer's progressed, Charlie assumed the role of caregiver, facing emotional turmoil as she witnessed his decline. She candidly shares the trials of accepting help from others, adjusting to new responsibilities, and seeking professional assistance to provide the best care for her husband.
Embracing Faith and Finding Peace
Amidst the heart-wrenching journey of caregiving, Charlie finds solace in her faith, viewing her experiences through a lens of divine guidance and eternal perspective. She reflects on the bittersweet moments with Lance, expressing readiness to face the future with courage and trust in a higher plan.
Lance Funk was just 51-years-old when he was diagnosed with Early-Onset Alzheimer’s Disease. Over the past few years, his wife, Sharley, has watched as her once strong, vivacious husband has all but disappeared from before her eyes and yet, for now, he is still with her physically and she is determined to cherish the time they have left together. On this week’s episode, Sharley explains why she has tried to be open and honest in documenting her family’s experience with Alzheimer’s.
2:03- Signs and the Release of a Diagnosis 8:05- Falling in Love with Lance 11:29- Open and Honest 14:13- Receiving Service 17:11- Disappearing 20:26- Still There 22:45- The Honor of Caregiving 26:00- Going to Work 29:30- Anxiety and the Darkest Parts of Alzheimers 32:19- Anticipatory Grief and Fatigue 37:28- Preparing to Let Go 42:24- What Does It Mean To Be All In the Gospel of Jesus Christ?
"I’m going to take this time...and just enjoy this and just lay my head on his shoulder and just remember what it feels like to sit next to him and to hear him breathe."