I was sitting around in the backyard shooting the shit with my friend Peter and we were discussing the idea of men and women. He has now been completely converted over to the MGTOW dark side after our conversation. The most interesting thing we spoke about were the dynamics between male and female sexual marketplace value. Why do some men value certain women over others as long term and short term partners and why do women value some men over others for their short term and long term attachments. We also discussed the idea of why there are a lot men out there that would be considered a seven or an eight on the attractiveness scale but they are with women that are overweight and unattractive and stack up being fours and fives. And the consensus we reached is that sometimes an attractive man will date a less attractive woman because the expectation is there that she will be grateful for him being in a relationship with her. And
because of her gratefulness to meet a better looking partner above her class level that will mean she will be faithful to him and not rock the boat for fear that he will leave the relationship. I've been guilty of doing this in my past relationships. I would date women that were lower maintenance where I was the catch and they were in need of rescue. The reason I did this was because I thought I had power in those relationships. I was better off physically, financially and had higher social status. I guess to some extent I was doing this consciously but there were also elements of it that were unconscious. I thought it was a great idea because I would often see very attractive women that would date and marry men that were beneath their level of attractiveness. In such situations the situations would often work out because the women were able to control their men and make sure they never went anywhere and remained faithful while they themselves went out and had sex with far more attractive men on the side. I thought to myself what a great strategy, minus the cheating part. I thought I could get together with a woman that was worth less then me with regards to her sexual marketplace value and I wouldn't have to stress out about her running off with another man because she had effectively already lucked out on me. And most importantly, not to toot my own horn or anything she would stay with me and be grateful for being with someone she perceived better then herself. How wrong I was. If a woman dates a less attractive man then herself he's usually grateful to her. But if a more attractive man dates a less attractive woman then she doesn't feel grateful. Instead she eventually gets comfortable and then eventually sees her own sexual market value rise. Although her looks are the same or have gone downhill she sees herself as better looking and tries to take over the relationship like a more attractive woman would. Her perceived sexual marketplace value rises. And she perceives that his marketplace value has fallen, even if it's actually gone up. But men that are in relationship with more attractive women don't seem to see themselves as higher class simply because they are manginas doing the bidding of a woman that perceives herself as a princess or goddess. They remain humble. Both sexes perceive their value differently even though they are in the exact same social or relationship situation. It's all about personal perception.
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