Understanding Toddler Tantrums and Emotional Needs

Toddlers around two and a half are still developing the neurological capacity to manage big feelings, resulting in frequent tantrums. They struggle with balancing the need for autonomy and security, often testing the latter by seeking constant connection with their caregiver. Providing emotional support through hugging, holding, and snuggling can help regulate their emotions and reduce the length and frequency of tantrums. Offering options for working through emotions, such as holding or working through independently, can empower them. For high-needs toddlers, getting additional support and relief is crucial. This approach should be followed consistently for two weeks to observe improvements in their ability to regulate emotions and show more autonomy.