Dr. Alexandra Repke, a Christian psychologist specializing in addiction and personality disorders, dives into the intricate connections between narcissistic personality disorder and porn addiction. She discusses healing for those with narcissistic traits, highlighting the challenges of feedback and self-acceptance. The episode explores the transformative journey of a physician overcoming his addictions and the importance of understanding emotional deficits related to narcissism. Listeners gain insights into the difference between genuine self-love and unhealthy narcissism.
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Narcissism Explained
Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) involves lacking the ability to see others as equals.
This leads to grandiosity and an inability to accept feedback, hindering recovery from addiction.
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NPD Origin
True NPD is a lifelong condition, present from birth, unlike narcissistic traits developed from trauma.
Trauma can create narcissistic behaviors, but these individuals retain the capacity for equality, unlike those with NPD.
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Addiction vs. NPD
Many struggling with compulsive sexual behaviors display narcissistic traits due to the nature of addiction.
True NPD, however, is a lifelong pattern extending beyond addiction-related behaviors.
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Dr. Alexandra Repke (CSAT, EMDR, C-PD) is a Christian psychologist who typically work with successful professionals facing challenges in their relationships or careers, often stemming from issues related to addiction, personality, or trauma. She is a lifelong learner, committed to understanding the complexities of mental health and advocating for practical, impactful solutions.
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