Instagram Homemaking Standards Keep You Stuck!!

Overwhelmed by all there is to do at home? If you feel like you’re failing at managing your home, ask yourself this first: what standard are you judging yourself against?

For many homemakers, discouragement doesn’t come from real life. It comes from comparing their homes to idealized images on Instagram and YouTube. Soft music. White farmhouses. Perfect routines. No interruptions. No mess. No real work.

That picture is not the goal—and it was never meant to be.

In this video, I explain how perfectionism sabotages your attempts to get organized and why so many systems fail before they even begin. The problem isn’t your effort or your desire to be responsible. The problem is trying to live up to a false standard that doesn’t match real family life.

You’ll learn
• how perfectionism hides behind “high standards” and good intentions
• why planning and organizing often turn into avoidance
• how perfectionism creates the boom-and-bust cycle
• why baby steps are the only way out of overwhelm
• how 10 minutes of real action beats perfect plans every time

Real progress in homemaking comes through steady, incremental improvement—not flawless execution or aesthetic ideals.

If you want help getting started, I have a free Smile & Start Challenge that delivers three simple baby steps by email over three days.

👉 Get the Smile & Start Challenge: https://simplyconvivial.com/smile

Or comment SMILE below and tell me which small area of your home you’re going to spend 10 minutes improving today.

▶️ Next video in this series
In part three, we’ll talk about how to choose routines that actually reduce overwhelm instead of feeding it. Watch the next episode right here.

💜 My membership & courses:
     Convivial Circle — Coaching, community, and live support for Christian homemakershttps://simplyconvivial.com/circle
     Simply Convivial Library App — Courses, replays, and audio in one placehttps://simplyconvivial.com/library
     Homemaking 101 — The foundational course for new membershttps://simplyconvivial.com/homemaking101

📚 My books:
     Simplified Organization — Mindset + systems for cheerful productivityhttps://amzn.to/48LOn9z
     The Convivial Homeschool — Encouragement and clarity for classical homeschool momshttps://amzn.to/4j0GmRu

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