Psychology In Seattle Podcast Domestic Violence (Cobras vs Pitbulls)(2016 Rerun)
Nov 27, 2025
Dr. Michelle Finley, a couple and family therapy expert specializing in intimate partner violence, shares her insights into this pressing issue. She differentiates between situational violence and intimate terrorism, highlighting the psychological impact on survivors. The discussion covers the trauma bond, barriers victims face when leaving, and the dynamics of power and control. They also explore treatment paradigms and the importance of tailored interventions, including promising couples-based therapy. Michelle emphasizes the value of family involvement in healing.
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IPV Is Widespread And Deeply Entrapping
- Intimate partner violence (IPV) affects millions and often leaves victims feeling trapped and terrified.
- Modern society's tools don't prevent deep-seated patterns of control and domination in relationships.
Prefer 'IPV' For Partner-Focused Harm
- 'Domestic violence' is broader while 'intimate partner violence' (IPV) zeroes in on partner-to-partner abuse.
- IPV terminology better captures partner dynamics and clinical needs.
Alcohol Often Amplifies Conflict
- Kirk noted that situational couple violence often links to substance use and poor conflict skills, and reducing drinking can cut fights.
- He recommends avoiding heavy emotional discussions while intoxicated as an immediate harm-reduction step.