If you’re feeling anxious, meditation and mindfulness may not be the answer. Instead, author KARLA McLAREN would advise us to sit with the feelings of anxiety and hear the useful messages they’re bringing to help us cope with a tricky situation.

In this episode, Andrew and Karla discuss:

How anger, shame and sadness can be the bearers of crucial information.
“Negative” emotions and the skills and energy they can provide.
Why understanding our emotions is so hard.
How to engage with challenging emotions, when society has taught many of us it’s better to repress them.

Karla McLaren, M.Ed. is an award-winning author, educator, workplace consultant, and social science researcher. Her work revalues even the most “negative” emotions and opens startling new pathways into self-awareness, effective communication, and healthy empathy. She is the founder and CEO of Emotion Dynamics Inc.

She is also the author of many books, including The Language of Emotions, The Power of Emotions at Work, and Embracing Anxiety, and she is the developer of the online learning site Empathy Academy.

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This week supporters will hear:

How to Deal With Confusion
Three Things Karla McLaren knows to be true.
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Follow Up

Get Andrew’s free guide to difficult conversations with your partner: How to Tell Your Partner Difficult Things

Take a look at Andrew’s new online relationship course: My Best Relationship Tools

Read Karla McLaren’s new book The Language of Emotions Workbook

Read Karla McLaren’s other books

Visit Karla McLaren’s website

Find out about upcoming courses at the online learning site developed by Karla McLaren, Empathy Academy

Follow Karla McLaren @KarlaMcLarenAuthor on Facebook, @karlamclaren.m.ed on Instagram, @EmotionDynamics on YouTube and on LinkedIn.

Andrew offers regular advice on love, marriage and finding meaning in your life via his social channels. Follow him on Twitter, Facebook and YouTube @andrewgmarshall

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