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Unlock Your Inner Dominatrix: Mistress Colette Pervette Empowers Women to Play with Their Power In & Out of the Dungeon

Nov 13, 2024

Mistress Colette Pervette, a professional dominatrix with 20 years of experience and a PhD in Education, tackles empowerment with a unique flair. She shares her journey into BDSM and discusses the intimate details of client sessions, emphasizing safety and consent. Colette challenges societal misconceptions about kink while promoting education in the BDSM community. With her online MistressClass, she guides women in harnessing their personal power, navigating the nuances of dominant/submissive dynamics, and fostering a supportive alumni network for aspiring dominatrices.

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Mistress Colette Pervette

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Mistress Colette empowers women to embrace their personal power through her educational platform, 'Mistress Class', transforming misconceptions about domination and kink.

Safety and boundaries are crucial in Mistress Colette's practice, with thorough client screening ensuring a professional and secure environment for all parties involved.

Deep dives

The Journey to Becoming a Dominatrix

Mistress Colette began her career as a dominatrix primarily for financial reasons while being a graduate student with limited income. Her initial foray into this profession was influenced by a friend's experiences working in a well-known commercial dungeon, which sparked her curiosity and desire for engaging stories and easy income. With no prior experience in the kink scene, she learned the ropes by shadowing other mistresses and diving into her first sessions. This hands-on learning approach not only helped her gain confidence but also led her to create 'Mistress Class' to educate others on becoming dominatrices, fostering a supportive community around empowerment.

Intro

2min

Journey to Dominance

4min

Challenging Misconceptions in Education and Identity

7min

Empowerment and Exploration in a Digital Age

3min

Exploring Kink and BDSM Dynamics

20min

Empowering Connections: The Alumni Network of Dominatrix Training

5min

For the 183rd episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes Mistress Colette Pervette, a professional Dominatrix of 20 years.

As an Educatrix, Colette teaches the art and practice of FemDom and BDSM to women and couples. She holds a Ph.D. in Education from UC Berkeley, where her research focuses on misconceptions and conceptual change. Through her teaching and writing, she dispels misconceptions about kink, sex work, and alternative sexuality. She guides women and femmes to find and cultivate their personal power by learning how to play with it in the bedroom, dungeon, and beyond.

Colette teaches an online Dominatrix training course called MistressClass, where she takes you on an immersive journey where she shows you every step it takes to become a Dominatrix and come into your full power. She has guided and trained hundreds of women and femmes to become the Dominatrix of their vision.

In this episode, we discuss how she got started as a pro domme at The Gates dungeon in the San Francisco Bay, what a typical client session entails, the tools of the trade, how to screen clients and stay safe, how it affects her personal sex life, and all things professional domination.

For more Mistress Colette Pervette:

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Sign up for Misteress Class www.pervette.com/mistressclass

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