Beyond the Myths: The True Teachings of Tantra with Chandresh Bhardwaj

Aug 28, 2025

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Did you think Tantra was just about ecstatic sex and ritual like I did? It’s actually an ancient wisdom tradition of self-awareness, embodiment, and liberation — and in this episode of HEAL with Kelly, I sit down with seventh-generation Tantra teacher, author of Break the Norms, and host of The Leela Show, Chandresh Bhardwaj, to explore the deeper truth of this sacred technology. CB is one of my favorite creators/teachers/poets on Instagram, and I just had to have him on the pod to learn more about his history and wisdom.

Together, we unravel the myth of “linear healing” and look at why true transformation isn’t about fixing yourself but remembering your innate wholeness. As part of that wholeness, we break down the rooted masculine and the wild feminine and why embodiment — not just mantra — creates lasting change.

Chandresh beautifully articulates breaking free from fear-based teachings, trusting the unknown, and letting go of cultural and social scripts so you can live from your authentic self. We also break down the raw, unfiltered truth about Tantra’s goddesses and their power and gifts. This is not just a conversation about sex as a portal for awakening (in fact, we barely touch on it!), but rather a conversation about love as liberation, embracing your enoughness, and daring to play in life’s unfolding with curiosity, courage, and heart.

Key Moments You'll Love:🏠 [0:00] Love as Coming Home 🔬 [2:37] Tantra Demystified: The Science of Self-Awareness 👶 [4:06] Growing Up Tantric 💪 [6:02] The Kali Practice: How Meditation Gave a Shy Kid Courage 🎭 [10:01] Breaking the Certification Trap 🌋 [12:02] The Raw Truth About Goddesses ⚡ [13:38] Prana Power: The Life Force That Creates Attraction
💔 [17:02] Two Homeless Promising Each Other Home 🎭 [24:36] The Anger Transmutation: From Rage to Emotion 🏔️ [32:02] Rooted Masculine & Wild Feminine 🎪 [40:52] The Anonymous Therapy Sessions That Changed Everything 🪞 [44:12] "I'm Not Your Guru, I'm Your Mirror" 🌊 [52:11] Trust the Unknown: Your Ultimate Protection System 📱 [55:21] Breaking the Dopamine Hunt

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Chandresh Bhardwaj website: https://cbmeditates.com/

Chandresh Bhardwaj on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cbmeditates/

Break the Norms book on Amazon: https://amzn.to/4m768V0