Shameless Sex
#343 Everything You Want to Know About Pu$$y Pleasing - with Stirling Cooper
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Quick takeaways
- Creating sexual tension through anticipation and engaging the female mind.
- Building intensity and exploring different clitoral stimulation techniques for enhanced pleasure.
- Understanding angles and preferences for optimal G-spot stimulation and using dirty talk to increase desire and pleasure.
Deep dives
Building Anticipation and Mystery
Creating sexual tension through unpredictability and anticipation by engaging the female mind and allowing her imagination to fill in the details.
Oral Sex Tips
Being patient and gradually building up intensity and speed of clitoral stimulation, exploring the clitoral sweet spot, and incorporating secondary sensations for enhanced pleasure.
Avoiding Turn-offs
Avoiding uncertainty and anxiety, exuding confidence, and being a calm and attentive partner.
Becoming a Pussy Worshiper
Understanding angles and geometry for optimal G-spot stimulation, exploring different positions, using props like pillows for improved angles, and being responsive to individual body differences and preferences.
Improving Dirty Talk in the Bedroom
When it comes to enhancing dirty talk during sex, using controlling, descriptive, and degrading language can be effective. Giving commands and using controlling language can intensify the experience, while descriptive language can amplify sensations. Some women have an inner slut that can be tapped into through degrading language, if that is their preference. Providing frameworks instead of prescriptive lines allows for creativity and authenticity. Dirty talk can be a powerful tool for increasing desire and pleasure, but it is important to establish clear boundaries and explore preferences with your partner.
Addressing Mismatched Libidos in Relationships
When one partner experiences a lower libido than the other, the solution can be easier if the man's sex drive has decreased. Diet and lifestyle changes can often rectify the issue. However, if it is the woman with the lower libido, it may indicate other underlying factors, such as loss of attraction or respect. In this scenario, creating jealousy and scarcity can reignite desire. The concept of pre-selection, where a woman sees her partner as sexually attractive because other women desire him, can play a role in increasing her own desire. Open communication and exploring alternative avenues to satisfaction are key in addressing mismatched libidos.
This episode is a collaboration with the amazing Stirling Cooper where he shares his wealth of knowledge about pussy pleasing, while Amy and April share their own understandings as pussy owners. Together they cover many sexy topics including foreplay, hands and finger techniques, oral sex, PIV sex, dirty talk, navigating mismatched libidos, and so much more.
About our guest: Stirling Cooper is an Award Winning Australian Adult Entertainment Actor. Born in rural Western Australia Stirling started off his Adult Entertainment career in 2017 shooting for smaller studios based in Melbourne, Australia. He then moved to the United Kingdom and used his experience and connections to get his foot in the door in the British Adult Entertainment industry, shooting for numerous large studios throughout 2017. His career started to really kick into gear in the beginning of 2018 when he shot his first scene for Brazzers in 2018 and after that was flown out to Budapest, Hungary to shoot for other MindGeek brands like Babes. He stayed in Europe for several months working between Budapest, Hungary and Prague, Czech Republic building a lot of momentum and gaining tremendous experience after being cast by big names like Rocco Siffredi and the FakeHub Network.
Stirling’s life prior to Porn wasn’t exactly innocent either, he spent several years in Australia working as a High-Class Male Companion where he would ‘service’ wealthy business women and fulfill live cuckold fantasies for desiring couples. Prior to that line of work he was also involved in the Swinging scene and the PUA scene.
Stirling now uses his wealth of experience as a professional sex machine to teach men how to improve their own sex lives and through his Youtube channel he also helps enlighten men on the virtues of living an unapologetically masculine life.
“His nominations include 2018 UKAP Awards Best Male Newcoming, 2018 UKAP Awards Best Male Pornstar, 2019 AVN Awards Best Male Newcomer, 2019 AVN Awards Best Foreign Sex Scene, 2019 Urban X Awards Best Male Newcomer, 2021 AVN Awards Best Actor (Featurette), 2021 AVN Awards Best Supporting Actor, 2021 Xbiz Awards Best Sex Scene (Gonzo), 2022 AVN Awards Best Supporting Actor, 2022 AVN Awards Best Foursome/Orgy Sex Scene.”
In 2020 he received the XRCO (X-Rated Film Critics Organization) Best New Male Stud Award and has received numerous award nominations already in his relatively short adult industry career. The next big step in Stirling’s Porn career was to make waves in the USA and he made a big impact the moment he landed in 2019, being picked up by Kink.com as one of their regular male talents and receiving numerous award nominations in his first year in the American porn scene. He has fast become one of the most respected, reliable and sought-after male performers in the industry and his career in the USA continues to flourish. He has since shot for all the big name brands in the Adult Entertainment Industry such as Evil Angel, Naughty America, Brazzers, Babes, Digital Playground, Realty Kings, TeamSkeet, Kink, New Sensations, Wicked, HardX, EroticaX, ScoreGroup, Penthouse, Hustler, PureTaboo, Zero Tolerance, Bellesa, LustCinema, Devils Films, MissaX and PervCity. Be sure to check out his work here:
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