The Date Brazen Podcast 182. My Qualifying/Disqualifying questions strategy so you never go on a bad date again
Have you ever wondered what questions to ask when you first meet someone? This week, Lily unpacks why qualifying/disqualifying questions are the ultimate game-changer and can transform your dating experience from emotionally exhausting to intentional and amazing.
In this episode, Lily shares the ONE question that will revolutionize how you vet potential partners, ensuring you never waste time on lackluster dates and conversations again. Drawing from the program, The Brazen Breakthrough, and her upcoming book, Thank You, More Please, A Feminist Guide to Breaking Dumb Dating Rules and Finding Love, you get the tools and mindset needed to navigate the dating landscape confidently.
Grab your notepad because this episode isn't just about strategy - it's a journey into reclaiming control of your dating narrative and steering towards the relationships you truly desire.
Episode Hot-takes and topics:
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“Give yourself permission to want what you want and start showing up for what you want in your life.”
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Qualifying/Disqualifying questions lead to higher-quality dates: you don’t need to cast a wide net. You need to be very specific about the type of person you seek.
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“Most people are going to be wrong for you. You are for the few, not the many.”
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Stop sending bespoke messages and extending unnecessary emotional labor
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Q/D questions that get deeper than surface-level convos allow you to vet people quickly
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Ask the right questions and tune into your body to see how the answer makes you feel. You want to feel intrigue or curiosity or excitement. If you don’t, bless and release. .
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Other Q/D questions we LOVE and Questions we DO NOT love when you're first texting
Links:
Pre-order Lily’s upcoming book, Thank You, More Please!
Creating a Confident and Joyful-as-fuck Dating Life That Makes the Right Relationship Inevitable
Free Guide to Your Essence-Based Preferences
Show notes: http://datebrazen.com/blog/qd-questions-strategy