Get Naked with Dr. Kate
Sexuality and Shame in Asian American culture with Christene Lozano
Dec 26, 2023
Dr. Kate discusses with Christene Lozano the cultural and mental attitudes towards relationships and sex in Asian American culture. They explore the shame and guilt associated with sex, the impact on individuals and families, and the lack of shame-free conversations. They also discuss the fear, secrecy, and lack of education surrounding sexuality, the code of silence, and the stigma of therapy in the Asian American community.
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- The cultural attitudes towards sex and relationships in Asian American households often involve shame, guilt, and a lack of open communication, which can hinder individuals' exploration and expression of their authentic sexual selves.
- The pressure to conform to cultural expectations and the concept of saving face in Asian American cultures contribute to the shame and secrecy surrounding sex, limiting individuals' ability to establish fulfilling relationships and navigate their own sexual experiences effectively.
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Cultural Views of Sex and Relationships in Asian American Communities
Christine Lozano, a certified sex therapist and marriage and family therapist, discusses the cultural attitudes towards sex and relationships among Asian Americans. She notes that shame and lack of open communication about sex are common in Asian American households. This can lead to misconceptions and discomfort around discussing and exploring sexuality. Christine also shares her personal experience of being a sex therapist in an Asian American family and the challenges it presents. The clash between cultural expectations and personal desires creates tension and confusion for individuals navigating their sexual identities and relationships.
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