My Tokyo Happy Ending Massage Changed Everything I Thought I Knew About Sex and Pleasure
Feb 13, 2023
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The host shares her transformative experience of a happy ending massage in Tokyo, discussing how it changed her perspective on pleasure and sexuality. She also explores the challenges of finding similar services for women in America and introduces sponsors promoting online dating safety and enhancing sexual pleasure.
Getting a happy ending massage in Tokyo challenged societal norms and empowered the host as a woman.
The happy ending massage experience brought new excitement to the host's long-term relationship and opened their mind to the possibilities of open relationships.
Deep dives
Enjoying a Tokyo happy ending massage
The podcast episode recounts the host's experience of getting a happy ending massage in Tokyo. The host and their best friend, on a trip for their Comedy Sex Travel podcast, were recommended to try a male prostitute for an erotic massage. They agreed and went to a club where they were matched with their masseuses. The host describes the anticipation, the showering ritual, and the array of sex toys provided. The masseuse then proceeds to perform various stimulating techniques, including fingering and using vibrators. The host highlights the empowering and pleasurable experience and how it reinvigorated their long-term relationship.
The unexpected recommendation and the decision to try the massage
During their trip, the host interviewed a local reporter who suggested they try an erotic massage service in Tokyo. Initially, the host laughed it off, but their curiosity was piqued. The reporter explained the different levels of sex and intimacy work in Japan and the services offered by erotic masseuses. Despite being in a monogamous relationship, the host sought permission from their partner, who surprisingly agreed. Excited and emboldened, they made arrangements to meet their masseuses at a hotel room.
The impact and reflections on the experience
The host shares their reflections on the happy ending massage experience in Tokyo. They discuss the empowerment they felt as a woman, having their sexual satisfaction taken seriously. It challenged societal norms and the idea that women don't have the same sexual purchasing power as men. The experience also opened their mind to the possibilities of open relationships and brought new excitement to their own long-term relationship. The host concludes by expressing their satisfaction with the experience and their desire to go back to Tokyo for more.
For the 108th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak shares the story of a happy ending massage that completely changed her perspective on sex and pleasure.
In October, Courtney wrote all about it for Cosmo and then included it as an audio essay in episode 103 with more from our Tokyo, Japan series. But in honor of Galentine's Day and Valentine's Day, we're dropping this audio essay on the feed as a standalone quickie. Enjoy!
Here are the links to other episodes mentioned:
A Sex Work, LGBTQ Rights & Gender Equality-Centric Tour of Tokyo, Japan—Culminating in a Mind-Blowing Happy Ending Massage!: https://pod.link/1154304419/episode/cdbf91e6660403c9f0275f144272734c
A Subcultures Researcher & a Sex Worker Walk into a Tokyo Bar: https://pod.link/1154304419/episode/899f6f2d01190869a4a89692debf033a
Gay & Married in the U.S., But Not Quite Yet in Japan: https://pod.link/1154304419/episode/59e1309bf6cffa56c39ac5b379bc806f
Japanese Girl Power: https://pod.link/1154304419/episode/1dfd23828094909116f9b81c3c06e1c2
American Sex Tourists in Tokyo: https://pod.link/1154304419/episode/803f5fff6cd2c64f9e000c0b4714d417
Sex Work, White Supremacy & Happy Ending Massages with Selena the Stripper: https://pod.link/1154304419/episode/978c18bd2af6d4c77b1a771f8d33a025
And here's a link to Kocak's Cosmo essay: https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/confessions/a41217848/tokyo-happy-ending-massage/
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