Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women 275: What's life like as an erotica writer? (ft. Ruan Willow)
When we think about sexy turn-ons and arousal -- especially when we're engaging in solo play -- many of us think about visual porn. The numbers bear this out: according to Psychology Today, 80% of men and 26% of women have watched internet porn within the last week.
But what about other ways of being turned on? Specifically, what about erotica?
It turns out a whole bunch of men are into audio porn (oh hi, ASMR) as well as story-based erotica and erotic fiction. This week's guest is an erotic fiction author, voiceover artist, and podcaster who writes erotic stories! We talk about turn-ons, the difference between visual porn and erotica, and how a giantess using a man's entire body as a dildo can be a huge turn-on.
Memorable quotes from this episode:
- “Holy shit, what the F have I been missing?”
- “Erotica and audiobooks are immersion, and infinite instead of finite.”
- “They got tired of porn, so they started to explore erotic romance.”
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