A Physician's Guide to Wealth - The Challenges and Lessons of Being a Stay-at-Home Dad in a Medical Family

In this heartfelt episode of "The Life Well Lived, the Physicians Guide to Wealth" podcast, host James Nutter invites Todd Spencer, a devoted husband to surgeon Amy Spencer, to share his deeply personal experiences and learnings from life as part of a medical family. Todd's engaging storytelling provides an intimate glimpse into the life of a physician's spouse, highlighting the joys, challenges, and profound lessons learned along the way.

Todd Spencer delves into the importance of being intentional with time, the practice of grace within the relationship, and the nuances of navigating schedules and responsibilities with a partner who is deeply immersed in the medical field. His candid discussions about adapting to the role of a stay-at-home dad, the critical nature of self-care for the well-being of the entire family, and managing finances in a high-demand household are punctuated with wisdom and transparency. For any individual or family connected to the medical profession, this episode offers a treasure trove of relatable anecdotes and actionable advice, all while underscoring the value of cohesive partnership throughout the journey

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Summary

0:02:44

Todd and Amy's medical journey together

0:06:11

Challenges of being in a relationship with a physician

0:09:03

Balancing work and family life during residency

0:10:20

The challenges of breastfeeding and being a female surgeon

0:12:20

Importance of being intentional and thoughtful in a medical family

0:13:53

Being selfless and putting oneself in the other person's shoes

0:19:24

Todd's experience as a stay-at-home dad for six and a half years

0:24:01

Mental games and managing expectations as a stay-at-home dad

0:27:37

Importance of sleep, food, and self-care for executing the mission

0:29:21

Recognizing and diagnosing stress and burnout

0:37:26

Managing time and resources as a busy family

0:39:04

Managing conflicts in time and money resources

0:43:35

Setting aside dedicated time for financial discussions

0:51:36

Advice for young Todd and Amy: Recognize and manage stress and burnout

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