The Leading Edge The Dangers of "Repressed Special"- A remarkable conversation with Brian Whetten (Part 2)
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Oct 25, 2024 Brian Whetten, an ex-Silicon Valley founder turned coach, shares his journey of integrating engineering principles into self-help. He discusses a refined framework of human needs, emphasizing the balance between survival and personal fulfillment. The conversation dives into the significance of love and community in healing, the challenges of personal growth framed as a hero's journey, and the essential role of commitment in coaching. Whetten also highlights the transformative power of addressing personal shadows to enhance relationships and deepen self-awareness.
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Three Octaves Of Human Needs
- Human needs sit in three octaves: body, ego, and source, each with healthy and addictive expressions.
- Upgrading needs (e.g., dominance → contribution) changes your fuel and reduces destructive behaviors.
Upgrade Your 'Special' Fuel
- Upgrade your drive for being special from proving worth to providing value through contribution.
- Shift focus from domination to creating measurable value in the world.
Shadow's Four Core Elements
- Shadow work centers on four things: needs, repressed needs, fear, pain, and judgment.
- The hero's journey moves from 'not mine' to 'mine' by mining shadow and expanding identity.