Hosts: Lulu Minns and Mary Lobo Release Date: 13th December 2024

Episode Description:

In a world that often demands perfection and resilience from women, many of us find ourselves “armouring up” — hiding behind masks of strength, competence, or even compliance to navigate societal expectations. While this armour can protect us, it also distances us from our authentic selves and the deeper connections we crave. In this episode, we explore the pressures that compel women to build emotional and social armour, how this impacts wellbeing, and practical strategies to replace those shields with authenticity.

Key Takeaways:

Why Women Armour Up: Learn about the societal pressures, gender norms, and past experiences that lead women to shield themselves emotionally and socially.
The Cost of Armour: Understand how wearing armour disconnects us from our authentic selves, impacts our relationships, and fuels burnout and self-doubt.
Recognising Your Armour: Tools to identify the “shields” you use, such as people-pleasing, perfectionism, or emotional detachment, and how they manifest in your life.
The Power of Authenticity: Explore how embracing your authentic self can lead to deeper connections, greater self-worth, and a more fulfilling life.
Practical Steps to Combat Armour with Authenticity: Learn actionable strategies like setting boundaries, practising vulnerability, and celebrating your unique qualities.

Downloadable Toolkit:

In conjunction with this episode, we are offering a FREE downloadable toolkit to help you put these concepts into action. This toolkit is packed with practical resources to support your self-care journey.

Download the Shadow to Self toolkit here: https://sherebelradio.eo.page/shadowtoself

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