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The Later Dater Today
#54 "How am I Supposed to Find a Relationship When I Feel Dead Inside?" Listener Question from Bryan, 51
Jul 14, 2024
Lakshmi, named one of the 'Best Guests of 2023' on PIVOT, dives into the complex feelings of emotional unavailability and what it means for dating later in life. She shares insights on how to navigate the emotional struggles of seeking love while feeling disconnected. Listeners are encouraged to engage in self-reflection, understanding the difference between mere victories and genuine respect. Lakshmi offers a fresh perspective on fostering deeper connections by emphasizing emotional awareness, steering away from toxic patterns.
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- Feeling 'dead inside' often signals a fear of vulnerability rather than a lack of emotions, hindering genuine relationship connections.
- Dating later in life introduces unique emotional challenges that require a new toolkit for navigating relationships and healing from past experiences.
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Navigating Emotions and Vulnerability
Feeling 'dead inside' may actually reflect a fear of vulnerability rather than an absence of feelings. Many individuals resist their emotions out of concern that feeling might lead to emotional pain or overwhelm. Instead of being truly numb, they may simply be reluctant to engage with the new and often complex emotions that accompany dating later in life. Understanding this distinction can facilitate a deeper exploration of emotions, allowing individuals to connect with what they truly desire in relationships.
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