Focus on the Family with Jim Daly Navigating Infant Loss as a Family
Jun 24, 2025
Tatum Green, a mother who faced the heartbreaking loss of her infant son TJ, and Annie F. Downs, a bestselling author and podcaster, share their profound experiences of grief and hope. They discuss navigating the emotional complexities of loss while caring for family, especially the challenges of helping young children understand such deep sorrow. Their conversation emphasizes the importance of community support, honest communication, and finding moments of joy amidst heartache, ultimately offering insights into healing as a family.
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Miracle Boy After Losses
- Tatum and Jacob experienced four miscarriages and a failed IVF before having their son Sam, who they call their miracle boy.
- Sam's pregnancy was healthy and perfect, a stark contrast to their previous losses.
Hope Amidst Diagnosis
- Tatum's family had the rare opportunity to prepare, grieve, and hope after TJ's trisomy 18 diagnosis.
- TJ was born healthier than expected, giving hope for a miracle despite the diagnosis.
Holding Grief and Joy Together
- Holding both grief and joy simultaneously is emotionally complex and exhausting but necessary.
- Shutting down either grief or joy is unhealthy and we learn to navigate both over time.