Shameless Sex Bonus Episode: From Filthy Milfs: Swing This!
Dec 5, 2025
David (Dave) Arena, co-host of Comin' Out Swinging and seasoned swinger, shares intriguing insights with his wife Victoria on enhancing marital intimacy through swinging. They discuss setting emotional boundaries, the appeal of club environments, and navigating complex feelings with previous partners. The Arenas reveal the concept of a 'cookie room,' the importance of female empowerment, and how spontaneous encounters can maintain excitement in relationships. Their candid experiences underline swinging as a refreshing solution for couples seeking to reconnect.
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Swinging As Intentional Intimacy
- Swinging functions as a structured intimacy enhancer for couples rather than random cheating.
- David and Victoria use strict boundaries and communication to keep it a reconnection tool, not an emotional attachment path.
Define Your Relationship Terms
- Define your own terms instead of assuming labels like "open relationship" apply.
- Set explicit rules and boundaries so both partners know what counts as acceptable behavior.
Stop If Feelings Develop
- If you sense emotional attachment with an outside partner, stop repeating encounters with them.
- Revisit only if interactions still spark excitement and fuel reconnection with your partner.