For the 101st episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes Alexander Cheves — sex writer, sex worker, sex educator, and author of My Love is a Beast: Confessions — for a primer on fisting.

In addition to fisting 101 tips, Alex shares his experiences coming out, living with HIV in a post-PrEP world (vs. in the 80s or even ten years ago), becoming a sex worker, becoming a sex writer, and writing his memoir My Love is a Beast: Confessions. We also discuss tips for exploring kink, how the pandemic shifted how he thinks about his sexuality, and why he recently moved to Berlin, Germany.

For more Alexander Cheves:

• Check out Alex's website alexander-cheves.com
• Check out Alex's sex advice blog lovebeastly.com
• Buy Alex's book My Love is a Beast: Confessions
• Follow Alexander Cheves on Twitter @BadAlexCheves
• Follow Alexander Cheves on Instagram @badalexcheves

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