Rehash Pick Me's
Mar 20, 2023
In this podcast, the hosts delve into the 'pick me' phenomenon, discussing its origin and definition, as well as its popularization on platforms like TikTok and Twitter. They reflect on their own childhood influences, explore competition and insecurity among women, and examine the pressure to conform to beauty standards. The concept of 'picme girls' is also explored, along with the behavior of certain reality TV show contestants who claim to not get along with other women. Overall, the podcast offers a thought-provoking analysis of internalized misogyny and societal expectations.
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Evolution of "Pick Me"
- The original "pick me" on Black Twitter described women prioritizing men, often to their detriment, and adhering to traditional gender roles.
- This contrasts sharply with the current usage, where "pick me" girls may outwardly reject traditional femininity but still seek male validation.
Avril Lavigne as "Pick Me" Inspiration
- Maia related to Avril Lavigne's "skater girl" persona, wanting to be accepted by boys.
- She admired Lavigne's seeming ease in male-dominated spaces, like skate parks, reflected in the "Complicated" music video.
Maia's "Tomboy" Phase
- Maia, influenced by her brother and male friends, sought acceptance in male spaces, enjoying activities like beyblades and basketball.
- Despite this, she still played with Barbies privately, demonstrating a duality in her interests.