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Pick Me's

Mar 20, 2023
In this podcast, the hosts delve into the 'pick me' phenomenon, discussing its origin and definition, as well as its popularization on platforms like TikTok and Twitter. They reflect on their own childhood influences, explore competition and insecurity among women, and examine the pressure to conform to beauty standards. The concept of 'picme girls' is also explored, along with the behavior of certain reality TV show contestants who claim to not get along with other women. Overall, the podcast offers a thought-provoking analysis of internalized misogyny and societal expectations.
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  • The Pick Me archetype originated on Black Twitter as a criticism towards women who adhere to traditional gender roles and seek validation from men.
  • The Pick Me archetype reflects internalized misogyny and perpetuates societal expectations of femininity.

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Origins of the Pick Me archetype

The Pick Me archetype originated on Black Twitter in 2016 as a criticism towards a type of woman observed in their communities. These women were seen as overly dedicated to men, adhering to traditional gender stereotypes, and seeking validation from men. The archetype has since evolved and gained popularity on TikTok, with videos mocking girls who try to be different or who prioritize men's interests over their own.

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