The Importance of Self-Control

Maturity in relationships is framed as the ability to maintain self-control and refrain from excessive physical intimacy. This involves understanding that showing too much desire, such as frequent kissing or touching, can lead to a woman perceiving a man as clingy and insecure, ultimately diminishing her interest. Instead, a man should aim to treat all women with a level of emotional detachment, preventing them from sensing his high interest level. By doing so, he reinforces his own value and becomes more appealing, as women are naturally inclined to respect those who present themselves with confidence and self-restraint.