Become New with John Ortberg Angry Thoughts, Second Thoughts | John Ortberg
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Aug 13, 2025 Explore the complex dynamics of anger and its profound effects on relationships. Discover different styles of anger expression, from exploders to self-punishers, and learn the importance of self-awareness. Reflect on personal emotional responses and the need for spiritual guidance to navigate anger constructively. Delve into the balance between acknowledging anger as a natural reaction and preventing it from becoming harmful. This insightful discussion encourages personal growth and accountability in managing this powerful emotion.
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Anger Feels Rational To The Angrier
- John Ortberg observes that anger can feel perfectly reasonable to the person experiencing it, even when it's destructive.
- He notes anger feels powerful compared to fear and tempts us to let it 'drive' our actions.
Don’t Let Anger Take The Wheel
- Recognize that anger will arise but refuse to let it 'drive' your behavior like a passenger resisting the steering wheel.
- Seek tools and divine help to prevent anger from directing your responses.
Four Anger Styles With Biblical Examples
- John describes four anger styles and names the first two: the exploder and the underhander, with biblical examples like King Saul and the elder brother.
- He self-identifies with the underhander style and explains its sneaky, judgmental character.
