Labels do NOT determine the content.
Pastor Nicole wants you to stop listening to the labels and what "they" say about you and start being the person God called you to be. After all you believe what you say about more that what they do. So start speaking life, Love and Joy into your life.
Your future is in your own mouth. What are you saying about yourself?
“Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.”
Ephesians 4:29