

121 Evolving Narcissism, Attacks on Empathy, and Raising Up Resilient Churches (with Dr. Chuck DeGroat)
12 snips Jul 3, 2025
In this enlightening discussion, Dr. Chuck DeGroat, a licensed therapist and Professor of Counseling at Western Theological Seminary, dives deep into the evolution of narcissism during the internet age and its alarming effects on church communities. He examines the rise of performative narcissism, the erosion of empathy, and the need for accountability in church leadership. DeGroat emphasizes the importance of genuine connection, vulnerability, and returning to self-emptying values amidst a culture often driven by anxiety and digital distractions.
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Shift to Algorithm-Based Narcissism
- Narcissism shifted from authority-based to algorithm-based influence in the internet age.
- Platform size no longer indicates true wisdom or character but creates assumed authority.
Performative Narcissism Emerges
- Narcissism evolved from hidden to performative forms, using faux vulnerability to control narratives.
- Performative behaviors include vulnerability, empathy, outrage, and expertise driven by anxiety.
Empathy Under Attack
- Empathy is increasingly attacked amid cultural shifts, linked to political and social tensions.
- Healthy empathy is differentiated, balancing emotional attunement with self-regulation and boundaries.