Fetishes and New Pregnancy Risks with Dr. Drew | Ep 201
Aug 23, 2023
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Dr. Drew Pinsky and Whitney discuss fetishes, pregnancy sex, narcissism, addiction, foot fetishes, shame, polyamorous relationships, patient care, sunscreen, lithium, exercise, and postpartum depression in an entertaining and informative conversation.
Exposure to extreme pornography can shape men's preferences and impact real-life relationships and satisfaction.
Childhood trauma can influence adult attractions and lead to seeking out intense relationships or partners who resemble the source of trauma.
Some women are embracing body hair, including pubic hair, as a form of empowerment and self-expression, leading to requests for pubic hair transplants.
Masturbation and pornography consumption can lead to addiction-like behavior and have negative effects on mental and sexual health, but can be managed with awareness.
Building self-esteem requires engaging in esteemable actions, such as serving others and being kind, to cultivate a sense of pride and self-worth.
Deep dives
The Impact of Widespread Pornography
With the accessibility of pornography on the internet, men are being exposed to increasingly extreme content, which can shape their preferences and expectations in sexual encounters. This can have an impact on their real-life relationships and satisfaction.
The Influence of Trauma on Attraction
Childhood trauma can influence the types of people we are attracted to as adults. It can lead to patterns of seeking out intense relationships or partners who resemble the source of the original trauma, as individuals try to master or resolve their past experiences.
Changing Perceptions of Body Hair
There is a current trend among some women for embracing body hair, including pubic hair, as a form of empowerment and self-expression. This change in perception has led to some women requesting pubic hair transplants after lasers, waxing, or other methods of removal.
Impact of Masturbation and Porn Addiction
Excessive masturbation and pornography consumption can lead to addiction-like behavior and may have detrimental effects on an individual's mental and sexual health. It can affect dopamine and testosterone levels, but with proper management and awareness, these behaviors can be changed.
Building Self-Esteem through Action
Building self-esteem requires engaging in esteemable actions. These actions could include serving others, being kind, and engaging in acts of generosity. By actively participating in these behaviors, individuals can cultivate a sense of pride and self-esteem.
The importance of practicing altruism and self-love
Research shows that practicing altruism can have a positive impact on our self-esteem, sense of value, and self-efficacy. Treating ourselves with kindness, even when we don't feel it, is important. It is not a passive act, but rather an active one that involves behavioral activation. Just as we would care for someone we love, we should ensure that our own well-being is nurtured through nutritious choices and fulfilling our individual needs.
Polyamory: Examining its challenges and limitations
Polyamory, the practice of having multiple romantic partners simultaneously, has its challenges. Bringing additional people into a relationship can increase complexity and difficulty in maintaining intimacy and emotional connections. While it may work for some individuals, long-term success is rare. The addition of new partners can trigger various unforeseen emotions and conflicts, and often results in one person being more invested in the polyamorous lifestyle than the others. Overall, polyamory is a topic that requires careful consideration and examination of its potential consequences.
The potential dangers of excessive sunscreen usage
While sunscreen usage is important to protect our skin, there are growing concerns about the chemicals in sunscreens and their potential long-term effects. Some studies suggest that certain ingredients, such as mercury and aluminum, may have negative impacts on our health. Additionally, excessive sunscreen usage may contribute to vitamin D deficiency, as it limits sun exposure and blocks the natural synthesis of this essential vitamin. More research is needed to fully understand the extent of these concerns and determine the best practices for sunscreen usage.
Navigating the challenges of relationships in the modern world
Young men today face unique challenges when it comes to forming relationships. Fear of rejection, overthinking interactions, and a lack of skill development in dating and relationship-building are common issues. On the other hand, women may also mistreat men due to their own fears and experiences. These dynamics, combined with factors like pornography usage and transactional sex, add complexity to already challenging relationship dynamics. It's crucial for young men to seek support, develop healthy relationship skills, and find ways to navigate the evolving landscape of modern relationships.
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