The podcast delves into why men find it challenging to pursue their desires, discussing defense mechanisms, fear of failure in business, and the impact of societal perceptions of success. It emphasizes the importance of clarity, overcoming fear, and embracing change for personal and professional growth.
Men's fear of failure can hinder them from pursuing goals due to past disappointments and creation of defensive narratives.
Men's fear of being judged as selfish or arrogant can limit their willingness to assert themselves and go after their true desires.
The societal pressure to justify personal desires can hinder men from pursuing what they truly want, leading to a lack of authenticity and passion.
Deep dives
Men Struggling to Identify Their Desires
Men often find it challenging to clarify what they truly want, which stems from past disappointments and fear of failure. The hesitation to articulate desires arises from past negative experiences and the preference for a familiar but unsatisfying status quo. This fear of failure can lead to an aversion to taking risks and pursuing ambitions, hindering personal growth and potential.
Fear of Being Perceived as Arrogant
Men avoid expressing their desires out of fear of being perceived as arrogant or selfish, linking internal fears to external judgment. The apprehension of how others may view their ambitions or successes limits their willingness to assert themselves and go after what they truly want. Overcoming this fear of judgment is essential for embracing personal growth and pursuing individual goals.
Reluctance to Go After Desires Without Justification
Men often feel the need to justify their desires, causing hesitation in pursuing what they truly want. The societal pressure to explain motivations for personal goals can restrict individuals from embracing their true aspirations and living authentically. Overcoming the urge to justify desires can empower men to assert themselves confidently and pursue their passions without reservation.
Reconnecting with Personal Goals and Ambitions
Many men struggle with a lack of clear goals and orientation, leading to feelings of confusion and stagnation. Without defined objectives to work towards, individuals may experience a sense of aimlessness and mental distress. Reestablishing clear goals and direction is crucial for regaining momentum, motivation, and a sense of purpose in life.
Seeking Support for Goal Setting and Growth
Men are encouraged to seek guidance and support in setting and pursuing their goals, especially when feeling lost or overwhelmed. Working with mentors or coaches can help individuals clarify their aspirations, overcome obstacles, and regain focus on personal growth and development. Reaching out for assistance can provide valuable insights, accountability, and direction in achieving desired objectives.
Ask us a question & we'll answer on the show (click here to msg us)WHY DO MEN FIND IT HARD TO GO FOR WHAT THEY WANT? Over CalibrationThey’ve gone for something in the past and it’s not paid off. Rather than facing that pain again. It’s “Easier”to create a narrative that they don’t want it.Not going for things is a defence mechanism.Body:Relationship:Business:2. They play to win, then at some point they play not to lose.An example of this is in the beginning of their business they tak...
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