Shameless Sex #427 Dating Done Dirty: The Good, The Bad, and The Funny with Dirty Lola
Apr 1, 2025
Dirty Lola, an award-winning sex edutainer and sexpert from Netflix's 'The Principles of Pleasure,' brings her insightful humor to the world of dating. She shares hilarious and cringe-worthy dating stories, dives into the highs and lows of modern romance, and offers valuable tips on navigating first dates and recognizing red flags. Lola emphasizes the importance of self-love, effective communication, and boundary-setting, all while delivering practical dating app hacks. Tune in for a delightful mix of laughter and learning to transform your approach to finding love!
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Address Libido with Hormones and Touch
- Check partners’ hormones if libido drops; aging can alter sexual desire drastically.
- Use non-sexual touch and sex toys to maintain intimacy when direct sexual activity is low.
Post-Pandemic Social Collapse
- The social fabric for meeting new people has eroded post-pandemic, especially in cities like New York.
- Traditional avenues like happy hours have vanished, limiting organic social and dating opportunities.
Respectful App Communication
- Not responding to a like on dating apps isn't ghosting; it's not engagement.
- Avoid putting matches in chats without messaging, as it raises false hopes and is disrespectful.