If you’ve ever struggled with relationships that haven’t quite worked, or questioned whether real, soul-level love is still possible for you—this episode is going to hit deep. 💫

In this episode I'm talking to the fun and enthusiastic Kim Anderson, founder of Divine Perfect Mate, and she's taking us on a spiritual and emotional journey, all about how she created love in her own life, and how you can do the same.

But fair warning…

This isn’t about dating apps or finding a man with the right job and the right shoes. This is about becoming the version of you who effortlessly attracts the kind of love you’ve always craved.

It starts by noticing the quiet ways you’ve settled for less... By shifting the old stories that no longer serve you… By clearing space—forgiveness, clarity, embodiment, and all. And most importantly, by becoming a match for what you say you desire.

You’ll hear:

💔 Why patterns repeat until we really pay attention

🙏 How to forgive those that are hardest to forgive

💌 What most women leave off their “list” of the perfect partner (but shouldn't)

💎 Why love that looks good on paper might not be right

✨ And how becoming a "high quality woman" allows you to receive the love that’s been waiting for you

What I learned is that finding love, connection, and truth in relationship starts with your relationship to yourself.

And you’re not too late. You’re not too old. And you’re definitely not too much.

Finding love is open to everyone.

Keep moving forward with love in your heart,

Debbie

P.S. Check out the video version of the episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/GML1pde62Z4

Here's Kim's bio:

Kim Anderson is a dynamic Relationship and Marriage Mentor, speaker, and founder of Divine Perfect Mate. With a career that began in the NBA - serving in Public Relations for the Atlanta Hawks and Community Relations with her hometown Detroit Pistons - Kim is a lifelong barrier-breaker who brings a unique perspective to the world of relationships. As a wife, mother of four, entrepreneur, ministry leader, and author, she has spent decades empowering women to rise above their circumstances and step confidently into their purpose.

To connect with Kim:

Website: https://divineperfectmate.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divineperfectmate/

Thanks for listening!

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