652: Sad About Dad's Sexist Thoughts Re: Assault | Feedback Friday
Apr 15, 2022
This discussion tackles a listener's dismay over her father's sexist comments about a sexual assault survivor. The hosts provide strategies for having tough conversations with parents, emphasizing the importance of empathy and open communication. They also delve into navigating complex family dynamics during tough times, like health crises. Lastly, they touch on charitable giving, stressing its significance and the impact of kindness in strengthening community bonds.
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Addressing Sexist Remarks
Communicate your feelings about your dad's comments calmly and directly, focusing on your emotional response and concerns.
Separate the opinion from the person, recognizing that your dad's views might stem from ignorance rather than malice.
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Handling Caregiver Stress
Accept the urge to avoid difficult situations, but create a care plan involving family, resources, and mental health support.
Prioritize self-care alongside caregiving, balancing responsibilities with personal well-being.
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Protecting Creative Work After Breakup
Secure a written agreement with your ex-partner regarding project rights and profit sharing to avoid legal issues.
Consider creating a 'creative prenup' before collaborating on projects with romantic partners to define ownership clearly.
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Your father's never been abusive, but you were recently disheartened when he referred to a child sexual assault survivor and advocate who's been in the news lately as a "media-hungry slut." And when you brought up how this made you feel to your mother, she dismissively suggested you should just let it go because he's always been supportive of you. Is there another approach you can try with your parents to make them understand they're missing the whole point about why you're upset? We'll try to find an answer to this and more here on Feedback Friday!
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