

Ep. 592: "Existential Gravy"
Aug 25, 2025
Listen in as the hosts hilariously navigate the challenges of morning routines and the woes of sleeplessness. They dive deep into the complexities of sleep, identity, and social expectations, sprinkling in delightful anecdotes from the restaurant industry. Embrace the thrill as they confront fears through a biplane adventure, showcasing how fun can be transformative. You’ll also enjoy laughs from a wild party tale involving Chris Waller, exploring friendship dynamics and the joy of unexpected experiences.
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Skill Shapes Enjoyment
- John and Merlin question sleep's necessity and cultural tyranny around it.
- They note people who are good at something tend to enjoy it more and feel less constrained.
Server Wins Without Wine Knowledge
- John tells the story of his sister Susan who thrives as a server without caring about food.
- Her warmth and disarming honesty win big tips and diffuse tense situations.
Conflict Can Become A Crutch
- A genuinely positive workplace can unsettle people used to conflict as fuel.
- John sees identity formed by opposition rather than by practicing a craft.