

Dr. Jean Twenge on 10 Rules for Raising Kids in a High-Tech World
Sep 23, 2025
Dr. Jean Twenge, a psychology professor at San Diego State University and the author of influential books like iGen, shares her insights on parenting in today’s tech-driven world. She emphasizes the importance of authoritative parenting—balancing love with firm boundaries to safeguard kids against technology's dangers. Twenge advises keeping devices out of bedrooms to improve sleep and mental health, delaying social media until after 16, and starting with basic phones. Her practical rules blend tech reality with nurturing, helping parents set effective limits without striving for perfection.
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Rules And Conversations Work Together
- Rules plus conversations are both necessary because kids lack adult-level self-control and face engineered products that maximize engagement.
- Relying only on conversations is unrealistic when platforms are designed to be addictive.
No Devices In Bedrooms Overnight
- Keep phones and internet-enabled devices out of bedrooms overnight to protect sleep quality for kids and teens.
- Better sleep reduces risk for anxiety, depression, and suicidal ideation, so enforce this rule if you can.
Delay Social Media Until 16+
- Delay social media access; Twenge recommends no social media until at least age 16 because algorithms can spiral into dark content.
- If teens must view a video, they can watch it on a friend's phone instead of having their own account.