Thrive Solo The One Where I Talk To Sociologist, Kinneret Lahad
In this episode of Thrive Solo, I'm joined by Kinneret Lahad, an associate professor and Head of the Gender Studies Program at Tel Aviv University, and author of 'A Table For One: A Critical Reading Of Singlehood, Gender and Time.'
Kinneret discusses her work on the cultural biases and societal timelines imposed on single women, the internalised shame surrounding singlehood, and the rich, fulfilling lives single people can lead. This conversation covers a range of topics including temporal norms, market value of women, and the potential of friendship and personal time as sources of fulfilment. The episode concludes with valuable insights for single women struggling with societal pressures, emphasising self-worth and the importance of finding joy in one's current life situation.
00:00 Introduction: Embracing Singlehood
02:14 Guest Introduction: Kinneret Lahad
04:37 Exploring Singlehood and Time
11:08 The Stigma of Singlehood
23:51 Consumerism and Singlehood
30:39 Cultural Representations of Single Women
33:06 Facing Societal Expectations
33:34 Reflecting on Life at 52
34:24 Embracing Singlehood and Shedding Shame
35:19 Navigating Doubts and Challenges
36:49 The Duality of Single Life
37:12 Finding Competence and Gratitude
38:01 Challenging Relationship Ideals
38:45 The Unfair Comparison of Life Paths
43:10 Rethinking Adulthood and Responsibility
47:29 The Sweetness of Solitude
52:23 The Importance of Friendship and Community
55:16 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
58:06 Podcast Conclusion and Call to Action
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