427: Sister’s Neo-Nazi Boyfriend Raises Red Flags | Feedback Friday
Nov 6, 2020
In a gripping discussion, the hosts tackle a listener's sister dating a neo-Nazi, exploring the psychological toll and familial bonds affected by extremist beliefs. They offer strategies for compassionate conversations that aim to illuminate the dangers of such relationships. The conversation also touches on a young woman's challenges as she prepares to be a naval officer while maintaining her values amidst social pressures. Additionally, they delve into the importance of networking and personal transformation, sharing tales from the world of organized crime and the power of supportive friendships.
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Approach with Love and Curiosity
Create a loving environment and ask why she holds these beliefs, but avoid getting emotional.
Try to understand her perspective and avoid judgment.
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Vulnerability and Extremism
Extremist ideologies appeal to vulnerable individuals seeking belonging and acceptance.
These movements exploit fears of marginalization and desires for validation and power.
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Focus on Feelings
Talk about her feelings and thoughts instead of directly challenging her beliefs.
Ask about her mood, work, and relationship, encouraging open communication.
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Your sister's new boyfriend is a flag-waving neo-Nazi who admires what Hitler did for "his people and country." And even though she insists he's somehow one of those rare non-racist neo-Nazis, she herself has cut off contact with previously close Black and Jewish friends. How do you help her see why all of this is so wrong and counter to your inclusive upbringing? We'll tackle this and more here on Feedback Friday!
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"If a decision is reversible, the biggest risk is moving too slow. If a decision is irreversible, the biggest risk is moving too fast." -James Clear
How do you get your sister to see why dating her new neo-Nazi boyfriend and alienating her formerly close Jewish and Black friends is wrong on so many levels?
You're about to become an officer in the US Navy, but you're worried your commitment to teetotaling will ruin your chances of bonding with your shipmates. How can you balance your desire to abstain with the need for a social life on board?
You're honored to be the best man at your friend's wedding, but you're not too keen on going to the planned bachelor party in the middle of a pandemic. How can you get out of it without jeopardizing your friendship forever?
You've been reconnecting with old friends and colleagues thanks to the exercises in our free Six-Minute Networking course, but is there a good way to recommend the course without giving away the fact that it's why you started reaching out to them in the first place?
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