The Truth About Co-Parenting ft. JJ Carlson | Dad Edge WINSday Member Spotlight

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Apr 23, 2025

JJ Carlson, a member and coach within the Dad Edge Alliance, shares his transformative journey through co-parenting and blended families. He discusses how his divorce sparked a commitment to personal growth for the sake of his son. Emphasizing presence over perfection, JJ encourages fathers to focus on emotional connections rather than just behaviors. He also offers practical insights for navigating blended family dynamics, illustrating the power of vulnerability and the importance of nurturing genuine relationships to foster love and security in children's lives.

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ANECDOTE

Divorce as a Growth Catalyst

JJ Carlson's divorce served as a wake-up call that pushed him to improve and show up better for his son.
He joined the Dad Edge Alliance to connect with men focused on growth and fatherhood.

ADVICE

Understand Feelings, Not Just Behavior

Focus on understanding your child's feelings behind behaviors rather than just judging actions.
Practice curiosity to build deeper connections instead of reacting to surface-level behavior.

ADVICE

Navigating Blended Family Boundaries

Accept and respect co-parent's rules to foster trust in blended families.
Use curiosity and communicate your values respectfully to build understanding and harmony.

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What does it truly mean to be a good father, especially when life throws you curveballs like divorce and blended families?

Today, Larry Hagner connects with JJ Carlson, a dedicated member and coach within the Dad Edge Alliance, who shares his powerful and relatable journey through the complexities of modern fatherhood.

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JJ Carlson doesn't shy away from the tough stuff. He opens up about the pivotal wake-up call of his divorce and how it ignited his commitment to becoming the best version of himself for his son. His insights challenge the notion of needing to be a "perfect" dad, emphasizing the profound impact of simply being present and emotionally attuned to our children.

Discover the transformative power of vulnerability and emotional intelligence in navigating co-parenting and blended family dynamics as JJ Carlson and Larry explore:

The Divorce Catalyst: How JJ Carlson's divorce became a powerful motivator for personal growth and a deeper commitment to his son.
Presence Over Perfection: The liberating realization that being fully present with your children outweighs the unattainable pursuit of perfection.
Understanding Feelings, Not Just Behavior: The crucial shift in focusing on the emotional landscape of your children to build stronger connections.
Navigating Blended Families: Practical insights on setting healthy boundaries and fostering trust within new family structures.
The Power of Simple Connection: Heartfelt stories of connection with JJ Carlson's son, Cohen, highlighting the impact of small, loving gestures.
Ego vs. Growth: The role of ego in hindering personal development and the strength found in vulnerability and seeking feedback.
Making Every Moment Count: A powerful reminder of the precious and limited time we have with our children.

JJ Carlson's journey underscores the importance of emotional intelligence and vulnerability in building strong, lasting relationships with our children, regardless of family structure. This episode is a powerful reminder to be present, be real, and make every moment with your kids count.

This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads. Sit back, tune in, and get ready to be motivated by the remarkable guests of the Dad Edge community.