Grace & Space is for...People Who Compare Themselves Too Much

This episode is for language learners stuck in the comparison trap. I share why comparing yourself to others is inevitable but unhelpful and how to shift your focus to your own progress. I explain why direct comparison rarely helps because our goals and circumstances differ and how joining diverse language communities like Grace and Space can reduce comparison pressure. I also highlight the value of community over isolation and introduce co-study sessions designed to boost motivation without competition. If you struggle with comparison, this episode and the upcoming Grace and Space event from September 25-28th are for you.
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**TIMESTAMPS**
[00:00] Intro + Event Overview
Welcome back, details of Grace & Space, this episode’s focus: comparison in language learning.
[01:00] Comparison is Inevitable
Why comparison happens in group learning settings — and why it’s not about avoiding it, but knowing how to respond.
[02:00] Shift Focus to Your Own Progress
Practical reframe: celebrate your growth instead of measuring against others. “What have you done today to make yourself proud?”
[03:00] Why Direct Comparison Doesn’t Work
Everyone’s goals, time, and experiences differ — your only useful comparison is with your past self.
[04:00] Spaces With Different Languages + Levels
How mixed groups (any language, any level) reduce comparison triggers and keep learning healthy.
[06:00] Community Beats Isolation
The value of supportive communities like co-study sessions, where accountability comes without direct competition.
[07:00] Closing + Event Invitation
Event dates, co-study highlights, ticket details, bonus package, and ways to connect.
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