You Need a Mentor

Sep 3, 2024

Evan Vela, a GenSend Journeyman, shares his journey into the world of mentorship, emphasizing its vital role in personal and spiritual growth. He discusses the importance of authenticity and vulnerability in developing meaningful mentor-mentee relationships. Practical tips for weaving mentorship into busy lives are explored, along with the transformative power of storytelling in fostering faith. The conversation encourages ministry leaders and parents alike to pursue mentorship as a tool for personal development and strengthening community ties.

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Intro

00:00 • 2min

Celebrating Love and Mentorship

01:34 • 6min

The Value of Life-on-Life Mentorship

07:45 • 3min

The Power of Authentic Mentorship

10:18 • 15min

Navigating Mentorship in Busy Lives

25:05 • 21min

Nurturing Faith Through Consistency and Storytelling

45:51 • 4min

The Power of Mentorship

49:59 • 7min

In Episode 2 of Season 4, hosts Shane Pruitt, Paul Worcester, and Lacey Villasenor are joined by Evan Vela, a GenSend Journeyman, to delve into the critical topic of mentorship. Sharing personal stories of how mentors have shaped their lives and ministries, the team highlights practical advice on developing meaningful mentor-mentee relationships, focusing on authenticity, vulnerability, and life-on-life discipleship.

Also in This Episode:

Insights on how to invite people into your schedule for effective mentorship
The significance of sharing life stories to build faith and trust
Encouragement for ministry leaders to pursue mentorship for their personal growth
Practical steps for parents to encourage mentorship for their children

Helpful Resources:

Essentials for Collegiate Ministry eBooks: Discover the new series of eBooks on leadership principles for collegiate ministry (available for free!)
Life on Mission App: A practical tool for sharing the gospel using the “3 Circles” method
Creating Your Collegiate Leadership Pipeline: A guide to developing a structured leadership development process
The GenSend Podcast Episode – Closing the Gaps: According to Lifeway Research, many young adults drop out of church attendance between 18 and 22. Listen to this discussion on critical gaps in student ministry and get insights on how church leaders and parents can actively participate in helping students navigate these transitions successfully.
Youth Leader Coaching Network
Collegiate Coaching Network

Shareable Quotes:

“At the end of the day, when our kids stand before Jesus, He probably won’t care much about GPAs, batting averages, yards per carry, popularity, or how much they can bench press. I’m not saying any of that’s bad, but what He cares about is their soul.” – Shane Pruitt
“If you want to be mentored by the best, you’ve got to be the most teachable person in the room.” – Paul Worcester
“The last thing we want to do is not let our yes be yes. Sometimes, we can over-commit, and I get that. But if you say yes to meeting with a student, or if you say yes to discipling a student, try your absolute hardest to keep that yes.” – Evan Vela
“Your mentee doesn’t have to imitate your preferences and opinions. You want him or her to be more like Jesus. That’s the goal.” – Paul Worcester