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CS Joseph Podcast

INFJs don't gaslight...(yes you do) | CS Joseph Responds

Oct 10, 2022
Chris Taylor, expert in psychoanalysis and answering questions about INFJs, discusses the behavior of INFJs and their tendency to gaslight. They emphasize the importance of asking questions, challenging assumptions, and establishing boundaries in relationships. They also explore how INFJs can overcome their critical nature and stress the significance of resilience and authenticity.
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Quick takeaways

  • INFJs should stop trying to fix others and instead lead by example to prevent gaslighting.
  • INFJs can overcome self-gaslighting by seeking others' opinions and accepting that everyone makes mistakes for personal growth.

Deep dives

Gaslighting others and its root cause

Gaslighting is when someone challenges another person's reality or experience, making them feel crazy. INFJs tend to gaslight others because they believe they are right and feel the need to fix them. However, it's not their job to fix others, but to lead by example. INFJs alternate between fixing others and justifying their own bad behavior, leading to gaslighting. To stop gaslighting, INFJs should remove negative influences, surround themselves with morally upright individuals, and stop trying to control or change others.

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