The Jordan Harbinger Show 1240: Warned Not to Wed Wife, You Fear for Your Life | Feedback Friday
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Nov 14, 2025 A listener shares a harrowing story of marriage despite serious warnings, facing life threats from a fiancée with escalating behaviors. The hosts discuss red flags, guilt, and the importance of prioritizing safety. They also explore a teacher's plight with student violence and the necessary steps to take for protection. Additionally, advice is offered on how to gently persuade aging parents to downsize, while a teen reflects on managing long COVID and the emotional toll it takes. It's a mix of alarming situations and compassionate guidance.
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Guilt Isn’t The Same As Responsibility
- Leaving an abusive or threatening relationship is the correct safety-first choice even when guilt about children arises.
- Guilt should evolve into sadness for the kids, not responsibility for the abuser's choices.
Get Legal And Financial Help Immediately
- Talk to a family/divorce lawyer, an accountant, and a real estate agent to clarify your legal and financial obligations for the house.
- Avoid letting her stay in the home rent-free while you pay the mortgage; that creates legal and financial risk.
Toxic Dynamics Are Often Mutual
- Narcissistic traits can exist across many parties and interact to create toxic dynamics rather than a single villain.
- Reflect on how your own tendencies (e.g., savior complex) may have co-created the situation.
