The Naked Marriage with Dave & Ashley Willis Sharing Sexual Past With Your Spouse | 14 Days of Sex | Day 6
Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast, where we're knee-deep in our 14 Days Of Sex Challenge! Today, we're delving into a topic that's as personal as it gets – the importance of discussing sexual history in a marriage. We're all about full disclosure, baring it all, and having those tough, but crucial, conversations about our pasts. From the number of partners to mindsets, expectations, and insecurities, nothing's off the table. We get real about struggles with pornography and its impact on how sex is viewed. Join us for a raw and honest conversation that hits close to home.
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Takeaways
- Open and honest communication about sexual history is crucial in a marriage.
- Sexual history includes not only past partners but also mindsets, expectations, and insecurities.
- Childhood sexual experiences can have long-term effects and should be addressed with compassion and understanding.
- Seeking counseling and support can help in processing and healing from past sexual trauma.
- Apologizing and rebuilding trust is important when revealing past actions in a marriage.
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00:00 Introduction and Importance of Discussing Sexual History
01:00 Understanding Sexual History
02:25 Personal Sexual History
04:18 Embarrassment and Regret in Sharing Sexual History
05:46 Childhood Sexual Experiences
07:11 Trauma and Loss
09:06 Processing Trauma with a Counselor
10:33 Long-Term Effects of Trauma
13:28 Dealing with Regret and Guilt
16:17 Supporting Spouses with Sexual Trauma
17:45 Revealing Past Actions in Marriage
21:03 Moving Forward and Seeking Healing
22:29 Apologizing and Rebuilding Trust
23:28 Conclusion and Encouragement
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