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Brain in a Vat

Love and Limerence | Georgi Gardiner

Sep 1, 2024
01:01:29

What is the difference between love, limerence, crushes and squishes? Can someone be mistaken about whether they’re in love? And is limerence harmful, or can it also have therapeutic value?


[00:00] Introduction to Love and Limerence


[00:09] Thought Experiment: Terry and Sam Seder


[01:38] Philosophical Debates on Love


[03:37] The Power of Self-Descriptions


[06:14] Exploring Limerence


[10:10] Conceptual Interactions and Sexuality


[29:23] Polyamory and Relationship Dynamics


[31:58] Understanding New Relationship Energy (NRE)


[34:02] Monogamous Perspectives on NRE and Limerence


[35:55] The Power of Naming Emotions


[36:47] Exploring Compersion


[41:13] The Science Behind Limerence


[45:28] Limerence in Therapy and Daily Life


[49:53] Limerence vs. Love


[01:01:18] Final Thoughts on Limerence and Love

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