Sons of Patriarchy Predators in the OPC
May 14, 2025
The hosts dive deep into a troubling case at Calvary OPC, unraveling a strict church culture dominated by patriarchal control. Guests Brittany and Chase shed light on a manipulative pastor and his concerning relationships with underage girls. They discuss a public courtship that revealed systemic issues, coupled with a community silence that allowed red flags to go unnoticed. The conversation highlights the need for institutional change and better protection for victims, sparking a call for accountability among church leaders.
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Public Approval Signals Systemic Failure
- When the relationship went public, witnesses realized the problem was systemic, not isolated to one man.
- Public sanctioning by leadership signaled implicit approval and silenced potential objections.
Double Standard In Courtship Rules
- The couple spent unsupervised time together despite strict purity rules that normally forbade physical contact in courtship.
- That double standard alarmed friends who later recognized the danger it posed.
Pastor's Uncomfortable Advances
- Lydia reported instances where Pastor Tom lingered close and made her uncomfortable while babysitting in his home.
- There was no physical contact, but the intent and repeated behavior felt clearly predatory.
