A is for Anorgasmia and How to Have Awesome Sexual Pleasure!
Jan 13, 2025
Dive into the fascinating world of anorgasmia, a condition more common than many realize! The conversation challenges the myth that orgasms are the only goal for pleasure, emphasizing the journey instead. Personal stories provide insight into the emotional aspects of intimacy and sexual self-advocacy. Communication is highlighted as key for enhancing pleasure, while unique family dynamics add a heartfelt touch. With humor and honesty, the hosts navigate the complexities of sexual desire and fulfillment.
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André's Mom Supports Openness
André shares how his 78-year-old mom is open to dating and supportive of his polyamory.
Her openness influences André's own attitude towards relationships and non-monogamy.
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Anorgasmia is More Common Than Thought
Anorgasmia, the difficulty or inability to achieve orgasm, is more common than people think.
Open communication about it helps reduce misunderstanding or hurt feelings during intimacy.
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Tara's Experience with Apologies
Tara recounts apologizing for difficulty orgasming or physical responses in group sex situations.
She realized society often treats these as failures rather than natural variations in pleasure.
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Many people think of orgasms as the ultimate destination when it comes to pleasure, but the truth is, they’re just one part of the journey. If you’ve ever struggled with orgasms or thought it was just about physical stuff, buckle up—this episode will have you rethinking a lot of things, taking notes and maybe even laughing along the way!
In this episode A is for Anorgasmia and How to Have Awesome Sexual Pleasure we take a playful, yet deeply informative dive into:
What anorgasmia actually is (spoiler: it’s more common than you think!).
The different types of anorgasmia and the causes behind them.
Statistics about anorgasmia and orgasms in general with some myth-busting included.
How to talk about what you want to increase your pleasure!
And how it’s important to get out of your head and into your body and senses for greater pleasure.
We give an up close and person view into our own relationship and individual experiences with pleasure and sex.
This is also a special episode as we share a story about talking to André’s 78 year mom about our openness as well as her own desires for dating and a long-term partner. Sadly Maman is no longer with us but there’s some lovely memories of her at the beginning of the episode. 💖
This kicks off our Alphabet Series a collection of trainings that were originally live broadcasted to our Let’s Talk Polyamory private Facebook group. In these lively talks, we unpack everything from non-monogamy and relationships, to sexuality, identity and everything in between. We’re thrilled to bring these fan-favourites to the podcast throughout Season 2 and beyond, alongside brand-new episodes!
✨ COMING SOON: Many of the terms and concepts from this series and more will feature in our Little Book of Poly Love (working title) set to release in 2025. Add yourself to the waitlist to be the first to know when it’s available!