Decision #1: Get Back To, Not Back At

One of the key decisions in repairing broken relationships is to choose to get back to the person, not get back at them. The Apostle Paul emphasizes the importance of sincere love, genuine care, and deferring to the other person. He urges us to allocate our hate towards the actions or consequences rather than hating the person themselves. We are challenged to honor one another and put the other person's needs above our own pride and ego. Additionally, we are encouraged to bless those who persecute us and refuse to celebrate their losses. By making the intentional decision to get back to, we create an environment that paves the way for potential reconciliation.